6 BDSM Sex Toys For Beginners

6 BDSM Sex Toys For Beginners

More couples are starting to incorporate light-level BDSM into their sex life via notable sexual actions such as spanking or hair pulling. However, BDSM extends much further than this, with sex toys being one of the most notable components, but it’s important to recognise that there is a wide range of BDSM sex toys available, some of which shouldn’t be used by BDSM beginners. 

 

What is BDSM?

 

Abbreviated for bondage & restraint; dominance & submission; sadism, and masochism, BDSM is a catch-term for a variety of sexual activities that are seen as more ‘intense’ than conventional sex. Often, BDSM introduces the use of sex toys, as a way to increase the pleasure given or received, however, as mentioned above, there is a wide range of BDSM sex toys available, which is why we are going to take a look at the most suitable toys for beginners.  

 

Recommended sex toys to beginners

 

  1. Blindfold

 

A blindfold is one of the very best toys to use to begin your BDSM experience. They are ideal as they eliminate one of your five senses, causing your other senses to become further enhanced. This creates additional anticipation for the next move from your partner, enhancing the sexual tension and desire. 

 

  1. Handcuffs

 

Depending on the type of handcuffs you purchase, simplistic cuffs play to the bondage and dominance side of BDSM, as you or your partner will become restricted from being able to use particular body parts. For beginners, it’s never advised to purchase a professional-pair of cuffs, whereas adjustable and lightweight options are more suitable as they can be adjusted if required.

 

  1. Feather tickler

 

Ideal for foreplay, feather ticklers are a great way to enhance your partner’s sensations. Simple ticklers can be used all over the body as a way to find sensitive areas, which will often enable create a sensual feeling for your partner.

 

  1. Low impact whip

 

Spanking is one of the most popular basic BDSM actions, and whips are a great way to introduce BDSM toys into this. Once again, there is a wide selection available, which will be discussed later, however for beginners, it’s recommended to start with low-impact whips so that little to no pain is inflicted, but the sexual feeling is still endured. 

 

  1. Candles

 

Depending on its use, candles can be seen as both as a beginner and advance BDSM ‘toy’. For beginners, a great way to use candles is simply for creating a special mood to increase the sexual atmosphere. Additional use of candles includes using the wax on your partner, though it’s important to conduct your research and purchase suitable candles for this. 

 

  1. Conventional sex toys

 

If you are unsure where to start with BDSM sex toys, then why not start with conventional sex toys? They are often much cheaper and favoured by couples, meaning they are an ideal way to start your BDSM encounters. 

 

For those experienced with BDSM

 

  • Ball gag

 

Not for the fainthearted, ball gags are known to increase the intensity of your sexual encounters without invoking pain. They are often worn by the submissive to show the dominant that they are in full control. 

 

  • Paddles & floggers

 

As mentioned, lightweight whips are great for beginners, but if you are looking to increase your intensity, swap the simple whip with a strong paddle or flogger.

 

  • Full restraints

 

Full restraints are never recommended for novices, as they can often be intimidating, but they are highly recommended if you want to experience BDSM at its highest-levels. There are several toys available, with a few of the most notable including bed restraints, spreader bars & cuffs and collars, though it’s best to talk with your partner before you go too intense. 

 

Purchase a full set

 

For those that think they are ready for the full experience, why not look to purchase a complete BDSM set for a great price? Here at Surrender BDSM, we have available a complete BDSM kit that includes some of the most favourable products including leather handcuffs, whips, ball gags and much more. 

 

If you have any questions about our services, please don’t hesitate to get in touch, simply drop us a message today. You can submit an enquiry form via our contact form, where you will need to include your message and contact details so that one of our consultants can get in touch at the earliest convenience to assist.

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